周二晚上通过grindr见了一个男生，在app我们互相告知对方sti and hiv free，我们都坚持要用condom，他带来的condom，我帮他带上的，and I performed oral sex on him for about 30 seconds while it was on. I didn’t notice any visible breaks then but it was possible that I missed it. He then turned off the lights and inserted his penis with the condom on into my rectum. I noticed that there was semen inside the condom and a bit of blood around the tip of the condom. I verbally asked him whether he was HIV- and STI free and he said he was clean. He left and I had no way of contacting him again.
I got paranoid on Thursday and check the condom. I filled it with water and immediately noticed that the rather big break (like half of the size of a penny). I assumed the worst and went to the ER and started on PEP within about 43 hours since the incident.