《我的父亲》作者 李新野 新作《人妻约会指南》
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点进来之前就想问：为什么是情感版块
这是什么题材的文章
这个比读书有吸引力多了，引人入肾！
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This file, “人妻约会指南.pdf” (A Guide to Dating Married Women), written by 李新野 (Li Xinyi), presents a controversial and cynical perspective on relationships, particularly focusing on dating married women.Here are the main points of the file:
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Author’s Background and Philosophy: The author, Li Xinyi, is presented as a highly accomplished individual (Tsinghua University, MIT, founder/CEO of an AI quantitative trading company) with a critical and often humorous writing style. He dedicates the book to his father, Li Songjian, whom he views as a negative role model due to his “cuckolding” experiences. Li Xinyi claims his theories on women and relationships are based on science, game theory, and evolution, and he sees modern women as “female primates in the AI era.”
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Economic Analysis of Dating Married Women: The author uses an analogy of the car market to describe modern Chinese and Western male-female relationships as inefficient and costly for men. He argues that dating married women (“sleeping with someone else’s wife”) is the most cost-effective approach for men, as the husband bears the financial burdens. He also emphasizes pursuing wealthy men’s wives to enjoy “expensive beauties” without cost.
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Legal Analysis of Infidelity: Li Xinyi asserts that infidelity by married women is legal in China and Western countries, citing women’s “absolute sexual and reproductive autonomy.” He argues that husbands have no right to control their wives’ bodies or sex lives, and that “yellow hairs” (a derogatory term for men who date married women) do not infringe upon any legally protected rights. He also mentions the “Iron Green Hat Law” in China and France, where husbands are legally obligated to support children born from their wives’ infidelity.
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Moral Analysis of Dating Married Women: He argues that it is morally acceptable for single men to fulfill their physiological needs by dating married women, especially since many single men face high costs for marriage. He also suggests that dating “yellow hairs” can bring happiness to married women who are unhappy in their marriages. Dating wealthy men’s wives is framed as a “redistribution” of resources in an unfair society where the wealthy monopolize resources.
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Modern Chinese Values: The author criticizes modern Chinese mainstream values as “pseudo-progressivism” that is extremely conservative, promoting an “all-out war” mentality focused on industrial development and national rejuvenation, at the expense of individual emotions, entertainment, family life, and reproduction. He claims this has devolved into extreme materialism and “money worship,” leading to women becoming “striving chickens” (using their bodies for money) and men becoming “striving johns” (believing success will bring them women).
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How to Make a Married Woman Fall in Love (or Infatuated) with You:
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“Picking up girls is a science”: He believes women’s psychology and behavior are predictable.
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Four Axioms:
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“Feeling Person Axiom”: Women’s decisions are based on feelings, which are rooted in instincts for survival and reproduction from millions of years in primitive society.
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“Polygyny Axiom”: Polygyny was the norm in human history, and women’s admiration for strength and upward selection are Nash equilibrium strategies.
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“Women Have No Love Axiom”: Women only have love for their children; for men, it’s infatuation for good genes and desire for provision and protection (“sense of security”).
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“Indirect Detection Axiom”: Women’s infatuation is based on indirect judgments of a man’s “value” in primitive society (e.g., romantic ambiance over direct wealth).
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“Attraction Law”:
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Always maintain polygyny: Women are naturally attracted to men who have multiple partners or high-quality partners. This is a “double-edged sword” for long-term relationships with unmarried women but is purely attractive for married women who already have security from their husbands.
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Always be prepared to leave: Never fear losing a woman; prioritize your own interests, work, and other women. This creates infatuation (“abandoned cat effect”).
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Domestic Violence (Academic Exploration Only, Do Not Violate Laws): He controversially suggests that women are attracted to aggressive men, even if they are the target of aggression, finding it a sign of “manliness” and “security.” He also frames verbal abuse as a “legal version of domestic violence” that can trigger infatuation.
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Revolutionaries and Artists: Women are intensely attracted to men with “revolutionary” personalities (aggressive, righteous, challenging authority) and artists (expressing raw emotions, creating lasting works).
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Maintain Subjectivity: Focus on self-improvement, passions, and dreams rather than solely pursuing women.
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How to Attract Married Women: They are easier to attract than single women because their husbands provide security, so the “yellow hair” only needs to provide the “feeling of infatuation.” He suggests exploiting their dissatisfaction with their husbands by presenting one’s own strengths that complement their “missing piece.”
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Sexual Relations with Married Women:
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“Anti-Slut Defense”: Women often pretend to be chaste even when they desire sex. The author describes this as a way for women to avoid responsibility and seek to be “taken by force” (not legally rape) to feel the man’s “manliness.” He warns against this, claiming it can lead to accusations of rape in modern China. He advises feigning impotence and then verbally abusing the woman to trigger the “abandoned cat effect” and “domestic violence effect.”
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How to Pursue Women: After attraction, a “ritual” of pursuit is needed to break the “anti-slut defense.” This involves creating a romantic atmosphere (poetry, music, dates) without spending excessive money. For married women, it also involves providing an “exit ramp” to overcome the discomfort of infidelity, such as meeting during their husband’s work hours and validating their image as a “good wife and mother.” He notes that married women often prefer unprotected sex due to a lack of guilt and the husband acting as a “fall guy” for potential pregnancy.
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Sexual Act: Briefly mentioned as needing to be “fierce and forceful.”
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STD Prevention: Emphasizes safe sex practices, regular testing, and reducing the number of sexual partners due to the high risk of STIs.
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Conflict Resolution with Husbands:
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Conflict Avoidance: Avoid meeting at the husband’s home. Suggests hotels, rented rooms, or company “nap rooms” during work hours.
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Dealing with Discovery: Remain calm, understand your legal rights (sexual autonomy, health, self-defense), and follow a three-step process: hide, retreat, and fight.
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Hiding: Avoid windows (above second floor) and under beds. Recommended spots are large wardrobes or empty rooms.
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Retreat: Explain you were invited by the wife and are leaving. Maintain composure, carry a potential weapon, and keep eye contact. If physically approached, verbally warn them against physical contact and declare unlimited self-defense.
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Fighting: If attacked, neutralize the opponent with strength and strategy. Emphasizes carrying weapons (handgun in the US, fruit knife in China) and prioritizing self-preservation over rules.
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Dealing with Blackmail: View blackmail as a positive sign, as it indicates the husband sees his wife as property and prioritizes financial gain over violence. Assess the impact of exposure, negotiate a ransom (often lower than initial demands), and be prepared to renegotiate or even sue for extortion once safe.
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If You Are the Cuckold: Advices emotional detachment, gathering evidence without alerting the wife, secretly transferring assets, and then confronting her, securing assets, and expelling her from the home before initiating legal proceedings. Also advises paternity testing and protecting children.
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Transcending Married Women: The author suggests that while dating married women is a low-cost option for most men, a high-value man should eventually “graduate” to dating single women or finding happiness beyond women entirely. He discusses “avoiding sinking the ship” (falling in love with a casual partner) and the high “time cost” of dealing with women.
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Transcending Women (in General): He describes women as inherently extractive and consuming of men’s energy and resources, likening them to “female ghosts sucking vital energy.” He lists various forms of this “extraction” in Chinese society, such as demanding salary cards, “bride price,” and adding wives’ names to property deeds. He argues that men should prioritize their dreams and goals over being controlled by women.
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Brotherhood and “Villains”: This section delves into deeper philosophical concepts, lamenting the decline of traditional Chinese morality and the prevalence of “love cults.” He argues that true greatness comes from non-blood-related men uniting for a common ideal (“brotherhood”). He contrasts this with “villains” (小人) who are purely self-interested, jealous, and backstabbers, often exemplified by “bootlickers” (舔狗) who sacrifice their dignity for women.
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Conclusion: The author expresses anger and bitterness at the societal pressures on young Chinese men, who he feels are exploited by “old turtle men” (李松坚们) and “chickens” (郭菊阳们)
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By Gemini
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人才啊
先马后看
第二页那妹子有点像曾博。。
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阅读中zs
再次大为震撼 
好家伙
勃勃这么眉清目秀吗，那很立党了
amazing
没有人说过扭老师不是他 
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这个人写的很风趣幽默。
他甚至在和你分析上层人士的丛林法则
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看完了，我觉得我已经学会了，现在去找白牛人妻试下
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